Plain and simple, the best gift for mom is love and gratitude. Now that I am a mom, I have a new view and appreciation for mothers. It is quite spectacular to experience first hand the unconditional love I have for my child through the roller coaster of growth and changes. I am also often aware of my reflecting thoughts on what it was like for my mother as she raised me.
We may not all have children, nor may we have out birth parents involved in our life, however, someone has played a parent role for each of us. That person is amazing! Personally, I think the best gift of all is letting the person know how grateful you are for the love and support. And if you can, spending time with that person can fill their cup of love.
Share your gratitude
Gifts are great. We all want and need stuff to make our lives more comfortable. However, the comfort in the heart from hearing how grateful someone is for all that you did and do is priceless. You take that with you wherever you go. It can fill your soul with joy. You positively infect other people with that happiness as you go about your life.
Enjoy the precious moments
Spending time with those you love is often all it takes to recharge and refill your heart. My mother was recently in town for a week to be with us and enjoy time with my two year old daughter. We took time to create lasting memories. We went to a few zoos; Cougar Mountain Zoo and Woodland Park Zoo. We went hiking at Saint Edwards State Park. We went to swimming class together. We enjoyed watching my daughter splash around in a bucket and her toddler pool in the back yard. She enjoyed her water table as we all soaked up some incredible northwest sun.
Also, my mom, being a holistic healer and massage practitioner, spoiled me by giving me a wonderful massage. We took time to tell each other we love and care for each other. This was the best gift for mom… both of us!
Gifts are good too
Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about gifts too. Appreciation is important. We attach memories and feelings to certain gifts that help anchor our gratitude when we see or use them. Plus the act of using the gift itself is enjoyable. I’m looking forward to some desperately needed new pots and pans that are hopefully coming my way for Mother’s Day. Or perhaps I’ll get some helping hands with a massage or house cleaner!?!? Who knows, all of these things are great, but it’s the personal meaning behind them that makes them special.
My mom and I did enjoy gifting each other some items for Mother’s Day, however the real gift was in the moments of enjoying each day together. The difference in gifting I think is when we take a moment to stop the speed of our busy lives and truly connect with the people who have an immense impact on our existence.
Share your love
Enjoy the stuff, but slow down and enjoy the moment. Let your mother, or the mom of your children, know that you’re grateful for all the years of unconditional love. Let your mother know you’re grateful she did her best. Let your mother know you love her. That’s the best gift for mom.
Besides, giving thanks makes you happier too!
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!